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The Secret Ways of Starting a Conversation

As an individual, you feel the necessity to make communications with other people and socialize with those around you. But the problem with some people is that they find it hard to make such interaction with those around them. Based on statistics, US has around 15 million people who suffer from social anxiety. Even though you do not believe that you have the same condition, this article is still worth a read if you experience problems when invited into a party and not knowing anyone there. Below are some recommended ways for you, so you can successfully begin a conversation.

The Secret Ways of Starting a Conversation

1. CONNECT WITH THE EYE

If you are not that good in socializing with people, you will really feel awkward when somebody tries to talk to you. So the secret there is to make an eye contact with that person. If you make eye contact, it will as if you are asking permission from that person for speaking. If you can see that the other person is maintaining eye contact, then try to smile. If you are given a smile in return, then that’s really awesome. There are instances where you can determine by this means if the person that you are trying to speak to has something else to do. If the person is texting on the phone, then that’s an indication that he is not open for some conversation. The same thing with persons who are reading books or wearing a headset.

2. BE A JOKER

In between persons who do not feel too comfortable talking with each other, cracking a joke is often an effective way to break the silence. If you know in yourself that you find that difficulty in starting conversations, then it is a good move to collect some sensible jokes that you can use any time there is a need.

3. BE READY TO SAY YOUR COMPLIMENTS

It is not proper to take compliments for granted. Beginning a conversation with someone is often so hard when you are being viewed as strict, serious or critical. By saying some compliments, you can break the pressure. More often than not, sincere compliments fulfill the work.

Starting a conversation is a very challenging thing to some people. But with some cues and hints, you an potentially fight the pressure. Always remember, eye contact, jokes and compliments do work with conversations.